Dear Adoption, I Just Want to be Heard
I think. Sometimes, I pray. I talk myself into it.
This is always the lead up to me beginning a conversation, hitting send on an email, or clicking post/share on social media.
The topic: Adoption.
And then, inevitably, with unwavering consistency, the pushback begins.
Why can I not share freely without someone interjecting their feelings about my feelings.
Yes, we are all entitled to our own opinions; on politics, education, parenting, etc. But we aren’t entitled to an opinion on how another person should or should not feel about their own experience.
Okay, Adoption (adoptive parents, adoptive families, non adoptees), allow me to give you a small sampling of what I’m talking about…
When I talk about something I am grieving because of adoption, you say:
“But look at all you have!”
“Those things weren’t…